When loving too much breaks your heart.
She is someone who found the true love of her life. She devoted herself in loving her guy. She tried all ways to make him happy. Everything in her life was about him. She loved him thru his ups and downs. She loved him when he was nothing, up to the point in time when he had everything in his life every woman would desirefor in a man. She cared for him more than she cared for herself. She fought for him and their love, ignoring all the hurting and pains she had been thru with him. She was happy when he's happy. She was sad when he' sad. She gave her all and did all sorts of stuffs for him to be perfectly comfortable in his life. But then, everything she did backfired.
One day, he wanted to go. She was badly hurt. She kept thinking what she did wrong, what she still lacks. Then she learned, he's having another she in his life. He was doing the same things to the other she that he did for her.She was more hurt and humiliated.She tried all her might to be firm, and for her not give up with this guy she truly loves. She kept her distance and remained still while her guy is having another relationship with the other she. She remained hopeful that he will realize it is still her. And one day, her hopes paid off and her guy came back to her. He realized he really want to be with her. She was happy again.
But as the days go by, she understands things will be a bit different than they used to be. Even if the situation is better now, she can not help but still feel certain feelings she can never explain. She will still undergo several questions and uncertainties in her heart. Even if she think she will be fine, she still struggle with pains and insecurites. She still feel betrayed at times coz somehow, she was traumatized with her experience for she can never deny the fact that her trust and heart was once broken by the person she truly cared for and loved the most. Now she learns, healing takes time when one was badly hurt. These negative emotions are all part of the package she has accepted. But she must move on with her life. She must put all her anxieties behind and be stronger than ever. But, along with this, she must now learn to love herself as well coz she should realize one can only do enough.
*** This is yet another common thing for women, loving too much,selflessly giving too much. Loving someone too much is not a bad thing. But one must learn to also save some for herself. No one can love you truly but yourself alone. Everyone is human and they are capable of hurting you. With man's selfish nature, we must learn how to guard ourselves from getting hurt. It is a human fact we must realize and accept. We can keep the faith going but we must know how to keep our emotions balanced. We can love someone in honest and faithful ways but we must learn to know what we deserve to get in the end as well. We should learn to love with both our minds and our hearts. In that way, we can protect ourselves from further damage.
God gave us our brains to use it in times we should,along with our hearts and other senses.Bear in mind that anything that is 'too much or too little' is bad. Selflessness is a virtue for saints. Full love and devotion should only be given to God.***
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